GRATEFUL:
That I can still see, feel and touch the ocean waters and the sand in my feet
That they are MINE forever
That he gives up on too much to make me happy and give me the life I always wished for
That I still have a little one who reminds me ALL DAY LONG motherhood is JOY
Gracias a la VIDA que me ha dado TANTO
And Happy Thanksgiving to you mi gente!
Con amor,
Vivian
Amor told me last night he missed not reading any updates on the blog. And that’s all it took. The busy husband and father with the “don’t post pictures of me” kind of guy attitude not only approves but actually loves my blog! Yayyyy! In his honor, I am sitting here, raising against time and creating this post.
As you know, I said my goodbyes a little bit ago. I know it wouldn’t be permanent, for blogging is such a big part of my life, but I had to prioritize what I was doing with my time and it still is what I need to be doing for my sanity, for my family’s wellbeing and for our future.
So with that said, there is much catching up to do, which I know will never happen, but some of the highlights of my days lately have been:
* Neighborhood preschool. There are 6 children so 6 of us mom rotate homes and teaching schedules. It’s crazy, it’s busy, it’s full of noise and activity, but I have enjoyed learning with them, laughing at their different personalities and seeing my daughter grow and develop in this kind of setting.
We have made some cool crafts
* Baptisms and more baptisms. Check out one of our favorites, which included besides great company, hip decor, some great food such as EMPANADAS, etc. I am right along with my daughter enjoying all her friends turning 8 (ha!).
Choose the right cake and handsome little boy
Empanadas!! YUM!
*My son is finally reading at grade level. We have spent countless hours working with him. Hours, which at times seemed like “torture,” because let’s face it: which kid likes homework? If there is one thing I did learn, it’s his attitude towards success. He knew all along he had to become better but that wasn’t enough for him. He had to be The Best. This is how he rolls at mere 6-years-old. And this is how he rolls in the game, too.
You may remember we are a tennis family. It’s gotten too much cold to do this outside…brrrrr
*Our dancer has entered a year of ballroom competitions. In addition to her core classes, she trains with her partner and her coach and have been competing throughout the state. If you ever wonder how all those dancers from “Dancing With the Stars” got their start, then come to the Mecca of ballroom dancing. It’s here! It’s UTAH…and then you can come visit me, too.
Training…
Competing…
*I voted. And despite him being a Mormon like me, I didn’t vote for Romney. I like him a lot and I agreed with most of his policies. Ultimately, his stand on immigration was too big of an issue for me to accept. I rather vote for someone who at least considers fixing a complicated problem, than someone who won’t consider it all. Romney didn’t get the Latino vote, among those mine. To no surprise, the GOP now is examining closely changing their immigration stand…
Long lines…and it was early voting 
*And let us not forget Halloween! I didn’t craft, I didn’t dress up, I didn’t party (and you know that’s rare in me..ha!). It’s all good. They got enough candy to keep them happy for the rest of the year and that’s all it matters (not).
They make me the happiest mom on earth 
I have been working on a new and exciting project. I am becoming a business owner and this process takes a lot of time and preparation. I never thought the ride would be so fun and exciting. New things await and with new things comes the pleasure of new beginnings and HOPE. Despite of my busy schedule and neglect of family, friends and blogging: LIFE IS GOOD!
Con amor,
Vivian
**Linking up with Seven clown circus, Live and Love outloud, Jenni from the blog, Project Alicia, Baby baby lemon and The paper mama.
WOW! I can’t believe how long it’s been since I blogged last and I think you deserve an explanation on why my blogging habits have diminished.
I have been traveling and in addition, when being home, have had a very busy time. In a way, I wish I had an assistant, or a maid, or a personal chauffeur, or how about my own cook? Nice dreams, huh?!
I have found that times have changed, circumstances have changed and certainly my plans have changed. Besides my duties as a mother, wife, daughter, community and church member, friend, you name it, I have been getting ready to start up my own company. I will let you know all about it in its due time. I don’t mean to neglect my blogging but I simply do not have the time for it now.
I hope to blog again, and to blog again enough to keep you all around, but if I don’t, hope you understand.
There are many other ways in which I hope to continue connecting with so many of you. Through this outlet, I really have met some outstanding, inspiring and wonderful people and I will always be GRATEFUL for that. I want you as part of my life still.
This is just an ADIOS for now.
Con amor,
Vivian
P.S I will still be on Pinterest and if you would like to follow on Instagram just let me know and I’ll send you my info :)
I might as well get a taste of Mexico before we head over there, even if it is a couple of weeks early.
This weekend there was much going on. The highlight of it though was celebrating our friend’s birthday with a Mexican party given that it was also the Mexican Independence day.
I don’t think I ever imagined that moving to Utah was going to be a learning experience about not only the US but also about Mexico and the so many other countries represented in this state.
My closest friends are from Mexico and I hold it’s people, its richness in culture, and it’s traditions close to my heart.
Now, as far as the food, I still have a hard time eating with spice but last night I was not disappointed.
The chef of the house made Tinga a delicious dish with of stewed chicken.
You eat it over tostadas with cream, lettuce, grated Mexican cheese, tomatoes, avocado, etc. See here.
Amor served an LDS mission in Mexico almost 15 years ago. And that was his first step into a Hispanic immersion life. When I met him, he spoke Spanish just like if he was a native Mexican, married to a Colombian you can say that many of his things have changed from the accent, the slangs and mannerisms to the music and such. He still roots for Mexico all the way. After all it’s the place that showed him there was much more to this mountains surrounding Utah and that the possibilities in this world we live in are endless.
Happy week everyone. Hope your weekend was full of endless possibilities!
Con amor,
Vivian
My best friend finally had her baby. You would remember her from the Bun in the Oven shower I designed for her here.
Luca was born and he sure has brought a lot of joy to many who have waited for this special being to come to such special parents. I am being called “Aunt Vivian” because he is almost mine (no kidding). I love him so much already. I loved him so much even before I met him and I can’t wait to see him grow and be part of his journey through life.
On the other hand, those feelings of wanting to have another child have become stronger than before. I have been struggling with this for quite some time now, and have been having difficulty accepting that I am done having more children. It really is not as easy as it may seem, and it really is not only about asking the Lord for an answer. Like I have said before, there are so many other factors to consider. It’s not solely my decision. I must have better faith.
Holding baby Luca gave me peace and it reminded me of how close I felt to heaven with each one of my children when they were born. I am so thankful that he came to earth to remind me once more why we are, how my children will always be mine and how FAMILY is all that matters.
So…I am Baby Hungry
And the kids don’t help either, when they are constantly asking: when they will be getting a little brother, and why, just like Erika, I’m not having a baby on my birthday.
She celebrated her birthday at the hospital. I brought the cake and candles, and against all baby delivery rules, she (we all did) indulged herself in some tasty raspberry and chocolate cake. (I know! I know! They are coffee filters but because we were trying to keep this “party” secret from the nurses we didn’t want to ask them for plates and that is all we had handy)
The happy couple awaiting for the big moment
With the other aunts
The big guy is HERE!
And as long as I’m around nobody else is getting a hold of that baby
And I wish he was mine
Anybody else baby hungry out there?
Con amor,
Vivian
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We dance. It’s come from generation after generation. It’s our passion, our love, our life and just how we expected it to be, our little one, our three-year-old, has followed right in our footsteps.
Yesterday she had her first dance class ever. It’s a creative ballet class once a week at the same studio where my oldest daughter has also been dancing since she was three.
I don’t mind living at the studio. After all, I knew it was just a matter of time.
On line with the other little girls about to go into class. She knew very well what was happening and was very excited for it. 
I was pleased with her instructor and how fun she made it all to be. Just perfect and how it should be for this age group.
“Dance is the hidden language of the soul.”
Con amor,
Vivian
